Community rules

Updated October 1, 2026

1. Be kind to the person asking.

   Disagree with an idea, never with the person. No insults, mocking or pile-ons.

2. No bullying or harassment.

   That includes following someone from quest to quest, ganging up, and "jokes" at someone's expense.

3. No hate or threats.

   Nothing that attacks people for who they are. Nothing that threatens anyone, even "kidding".

4. Nothing dangerous or humiliating.

   Suggest things you'd do yourself. Nothing illegal, risky, or meant to embarrass.

5. Keep private things private.

   No addresses, phone numbers, schools, workplaces, or photos of anyone without their OK. Yours included.

6. Be a real person.

   One account each, run by you. No bots, no AI agents posting or voting for you, no fake votes, no ads dressed up as ideas. A spell checker is fine. Letting software speak for you isn't.

When a rule gets broken

• A post that might break a rule is held while a person checks it.
• A post that breaks one is removed. You'll see why. Nobody else does.
• Breaking rules again pauses posting for a while. Threats, sharing private info or running a bot can end an account right away.
• Every decision can get a second look, and you always hear the result.